I think the plans call for 3/8”. The long eyes are really hard to find. It looks like mine did ship after a week. Amazon is nothing like it use to be. I should have them middle of next week
If you can't get long enough shanks, get the longest ones you can. Inside the bow, use a spade or Forstner bit to drill an oversize hole that's big enough for the U-bolt and washers. Drill deep enough so that the shanks will extend into the hole enough to take a washer and nut. Coat the bejeebies out of everything with epoxy, then install the U-bolts from outside ... and on the inside, tighten them in with a washer and nut. Use caulk when you install. In other words, buy the longest shank 3/8" stainless (316 is best) U-bolts that you can find, then countersink on the inside of the stem deep enough for getting the washer and nut on.
The stem is strong enough even if you drill a hole clear through, so don't worry about it ... do the best you can with the longest shanks you can get.
Another option is to use a barrel-nut to add all-thread extensions to the shanks. I know of one guy that did this with great success, but the technique above is preferred.
Brian